Here we are, on another Formal Friday. The sun is shining, the birds are chirping (tweet tweet woot tweet) and the ranks of Formal Friday have grown.

Here is Stephen, attempting to bring the short tie back to prominence

Daisy and Will, both looking ever so dapper. This is Daiy's first Formal Friday.
How did this event grow into such an occasion? I’ll tell you.
Formal Friday’s began as Stephen and I wearing ties to the office. As I only did it on Mondays and Fridays, it was casually referred to it as bookend tie days. From there I decided the best way to get other people involved was to turn the practice of wearing a tie to work (at a job which didn’t require one) into something greater; a tribe.
The first thing to do was understand the appeal of this activity (it feels good to dress up, you look nice). Next I decided to define the activity in such a way as to make it more inclusive. That was how bookend tie days became Formal Fridays.
One of the larger barriers of entry into Formal Fridays communicated to me was that people forgot. Silly? Maybe, but waking up in a foggy haze on a Friday morning does not easily lend itself to remembering to wear a tie. Being a mobile guru, I’ve come up with a remedy to this situation. I set up a reminder service for my colleagues who choose to make use of it. Each Friday at 7Am they recieve a text message (SMS for those in the know) reminding them to wear a tie. Simple. As a special treat, they get a message at the end of the day at 6PM congratulating them on a great day, and of course, for wearing a tie.
Formal attire is a general term for clothing suitable for formal social events, such as a wedding, formal garden party or dinner, débutante cotillion, dance, or race. I think its safe to say that we’re using the word formal in the loosest sense.
Some might agrue the whole thing hypocritical; wearing a tie doesn’t make you “formal” and that we are in fact dumbing down formal style, just as we complain that casual friday has dumbed-down style in general. I (obviously) disagree with that assertion. A tie can be a powerful thing, especially when set against the backdrop of an office of open collars.
How will Formal Fridays expand? That’s not for me to dicate, but for those who choose to participate to decide. Perhaps someone will forgo a tie, but wear a blazer and pocket square. Next Friday might see a 3-piece suit stroll into the office.
The point is that we’ve identified 2 key points people relate to. Its fun to dress up and you look nice dressed up. While you might think this is merely my opinion, each new member of the Formal Friday crowd makes my point that much more valid. The reality is, if dressing up didn’t provide some sort of positive consequence (be it the self-satisfaction from looking at yourself in the mirror that morning, a smile on the street from a random passerby acknowledging your sartorial instinct or something as simple as the joy of participating in a group of like-minded individuals), they wouldn’t continue to do it.
Formal Fridays is now both a brand and a movement. Will you be wearing your tie next Friday?